A Cat is NOT a Small Commitment

I hear people constantly saying how they're just not a dog person because dogs are too much commitment. But that they could see themselves being a cat person because cats are so low-maintenance and don't need constant attention.

Well, that's a fallacy.

I adore my Samo, but she is a difficult pet more often than not. The reward of her companionship and friendship is worth getting through those difficult times - even where there seems to be no end in sight. And those rewards aren't just of my own imagining: the health benefits of cats, of any companion animal, have been scientifically documented and include lower blood pressure, a reducing of stress, a longer life span, and many others.
So why is Samo difficult? And how do I cope with those behavioral problems? Let's see:

1. Sometimes she refuses to eat unless I watch her. This usually happens after I have been out of the house for a really long time and she is suffering from a mild case of separation anxiety.  I usually fill her bowl and take a couple minutes to sit with her while she eats. Otherwise, she will follow me around the house meowing - "Come watch me eat. Come watch me eat." - at me whilst I attempt to do my house chores. It's easier to take two minutes to watch her eat then to trip over her for the next two hours.

2. She refuses to scratch her scratch pads but prefers my vintage chairs and other supposedly off limits fixtures.  Cats need to scratch and they need to do so from a up-stretched position - it's natural and it's instinctual. So to scold her would be pointless. And I will not resort to declawing because I happen to find it cruel. So I use the transference method or have even had to resort to simply covering up what she has been clawing in hopes that she forgets about it.  Generally this works. But if she's going to be stubborn, she's going to be stubborn.

Samo and me in the kitchen.

3. 6am is when her internal clock goes off and, therefore, when she attempts to awaken me. Why do some cats insist on trying to give their owners an early wake-up call?  DON'T GIVE IN. Don't get up and give your cat food or water or attention. If you are going to want to sleep past this time ever again: ignore them.  If you wake up and do give them whatever they are asking for, they will continue this behavior as it yielded positive results. But if you ignore your cat and make them go back to sleep or at least quiet down, they are more likely to be weaned of such behaviors.

4. She needs me home. If I am gone for a day or for a more than my usually 6 to 8 hours of work/school, I notice a change in her behavior: she'll claw at the carpet in the corners, she'll try to knock pictures off the wall, she meows at me for no particular reason.  But she does have a reason: she missed me, she was lonely, she was bored. And she needs to be played with and doted upon.

I suppose the bottom line is that ANY PET is a commitment. And it is not wise to get a cat if your reasoning is that they are less of commitment and do not need as much of your attention as some other indoor pet. It is not accurate and you will be made aware of that quite soon by your new kitten.